To imagine the road to happiness is a road isn’t imagination.
It’s a mistake. Because the choice to be unhappy or happy is permanent, available not only to you but to everyone.
You don’t make choices.
You make decisions.
Happy is no exception that no other word or word-user can decide for you.
Once you decide, it instantly makes you happy no matter what with what you are and aren’t, with what you do and don’t do, and with what you have and don’t have.
Happy is a word.
Decide your words well for they become your destiny.
Side note:
Not certain about the difference between choice and decision? Choices are infinite while decisions are finite. Your choices outnumber your decisions an infinite number to one.
OK, I decide to be happy… but it could be so much pressure around me, bad events or even fight that refrain the happyness…
Marie-Claire, I think you might find it hard to have it both ways. Either you decide or you have other word-users or events — pressure, bad events, or even fight — make the decision for you. You may find that If you don’t make a decision about how you are going to live, then you have already made a decision. https://go.schindlersword.com/PsP3sk
Oops, wrong link.Here’s correct https://go.schindlersword.com/JU1zOy
… so, my decision is to live happy, but at the same time I make the decision not to ignore people around me who might somehow bring shadow in my happiness. I’m not alone on this planet and I decide to be part of a society, that means to have my share of happyness and of sorrow.
Exactly!